Family Vacation Survival Guide

Beach, Family, My Tasteful Life, Planning, Salt, Survival, Vacation

Traveling with extended family can be as stressful as it is fun. My husband, daughter and I recently met up on Amelia Island, Florida, with my parents, four siblings, an aunt and her two teenage kids. The dynamics of organizing 12 people’s wants and needs can be challenging to say the least. But below I’ve identified four key ways to maximize and enjoy your time with loved ones. Following these simple guidelines can make your next holiday the best family vacation you’ve had in years.

Savor 

Sitting on the beach next to my dad and watching my three brothers play with my daughter, I was completely content. The familiarity of my dad flipping the pages of his newspaper, the sound of the surf and the squeals of delight from an entertained 4-year-old truly warmed my heart. I made an effort to savor that moment.

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Building the Great Wall of Amelia!

I also savored the delicious food and drink. Champagne has been a favorite choice lately, and it fit perfectly with my beach vacation. We were also lucky enough to eat at Salt, the premiere restaurant of the Ritz-Carlton, Amelia Island. You know I savored the heck out of my shrimp appetizer and Wagyu beef strip steak.

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Wagyu Strip Steak at Salt, Ritz-Carlton, Amelia Island

Relax

Other than setting a 10 a.m. daily meet-up time for everyone, I did my best to go with the flow. I’m sure that sounds rigid, but my experience has taught me that if you don’t carve out a specific time to get together, then you end up seeing your family only in the hotel hallway and at dinner.

Back to relaxing! Having kids can make you follow a schedule. Naps, bath and bedtime seem to run the roost. A family vacation is a perfect time to relax those routines, if your child is comfortable winging it. For instance, if it was close to 2 p.m. (and Lily wasn’t sunburned) we’d hang at the beach until 3-ish, pushing her nap time an hour or more. I also let her nap for as long as she wanted, and then there was no leaving dinner early to “get her to bed.” That gave us even more time with the family we don’t get to see often enough.

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Staying up late and loving it!

Accept

Inevitably there will be the occasional conflict when traveling with 12 people. Accept it! Instead of worrying about it or freaking out when it happens, just know it will pass. The quicker everyone can get over it, the faster you can all get back to enjoying the trip.

Remember, this is family – you didn’t get to pick them but they are yours for life. It’s better to accept each other’s faults than hold onto the animosity that would typically end friendships. Besides, it’s only for a few days and there is a bar nearby.

Capture

It had been over five years since I was last with my parents and all of my siblings at the same time. That seems crazy, but life gets in the way. All the more reason to capture the moment. Take a ton of photos. Be annoying about it. This is the digital age – you can erase the crappy ones. Keep snapping and I guarantee you’ll capture a gem that will probably become an iconic family image.

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Patriarch watching over little ones in the surf.

If you have the opportunity to hire a professional photographer on vacation, then take it. My sister Erin coordinated a low-stress, one-hour photo shoot that yielded some beautiful family photos. It had been 11 years since the last formal family photo we had taken, and that was at my wedding! The hour session might have been a little crazy organizing all of us, but the end result was more than worth the effort.

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Time flies so capture special moments.

Introducing Cauli-rice: Your New Paleo Side

Asian, Coconut Milk, Herbs, Indian, Paleo, side dish, Spanish

Paleo cooking is packed with flavor, but one of the things I miss most are side dishes like rice, couscous and potatoes. While I can happily abstain from these less-than-healthy sides, it’s harder to ask my friends and family to adhere to my Paleo regimen. IMG_2597

Therefore, I’ve been trying to be creative and have come to love cauliflower rice – a.k.a. cauli-rice. Cauliflower can be transformed into a rice-like texture by using a good blender or cheese grater. Such a mild vegetable, cauliflower absorbs whatever flavors used in its cooking process.

Basic cauli-rice can be as simple as a large skillet, a grated head of cauliflower, a tablespoon of healthy fats, and 1/3 cup of chicken broth. However, by adding basic ingredients such as garlic, onion, and fresh herbs, you can create flavorful combinations that enhance your main dish while satisfying guests and families alike.

Saffron Cauil-rice

Saffron Cauil-rice

Even if you don’t follow a Paleo lifestyle, you can treat this cauli-rice like risotto. Add some saffron and peas. Or try it with mushrooms, cream and parmesan cheese. The options are endless once you grate the cauliflower and treat it like rice.

Hand-grating the cauliflower may take a little elbow grease, but a blender makes this recipe much easier. The key is to crumble the cauliflower in batches. You also need to pulse the blender to ensure that you don’t over-grind the cauliflower florets.

Below I’ve shared one of my favorite ways to make cauli-rice. This combination of cilantro, lime and coconut works great with all Asian, Indian and Spanish cuisines.

Cilantro and Coconut Cauliflower Rice

Ingredients

1 small head of cauliflower or bag of pre-cut cauliflower

1 tablespoon ghee, coconut oil or olive oil

1 teaspoon sea salt

2 cloves garlic, chopped

1/2 cup onions, chopped

1/4 cup red pepper, chopped

1/2 cup cilantro leaves, roughly chopped

1/2 cup light coconut milk

1 lime, juiced

Process

Create the cauli-rice by cutting the cauliflower head into large chunks. In your blender, pulse each section individually until it has a rice-like texture. Remove any large fragments that don’t shred and save them for later or discard.

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Once you’ve riced all of the cauliflower, melt your oil or ghee in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add the onion, pepper and garlic and sauté for 3-5 minutes. Add the cauli-rice and spread over the entire surface area of the pan. Press down and let cook for 2-3 minutes, and then mix. Continue to sauté for 5 minutes.

Then add the lime juice and coconut milk, reduce the heat to low, and cover. Cook for 15 minutes, stirring occasionally until all the liquid has been absorbed. Add salt and cilantro, stir and serve.

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Summertime Marinades: Soy Spring

Chicken, grilling, Marinade, Paleo, pork, Seafood, Shellfish

The Soy Spring recipe below works with virtually all food. Those strictly adhering to a Paleo diet can easily substitute Coconut Aminos for the soy sauce. However, for me, the amount is so small and it’s used as a marinade so I’m okay with cheating a little bit. IMG_2702

Soy Spring (best with vegetables, chicken, seafood, pork or thick-cut steak)

Ingredients

1 tablespoon of rice wine vinegar (apple cider vinegar can be substituted)

1/4 cup reduced-sodium soy sauce (Coconut Aminos can be substituted)

2 tablespoons sweetener (local honey, agave or raw sugar)

1 tablespoon fresh ginger, peeled and grated or finely chopped (1/2 teaspoon of dried ginger can be substituted)

2 cloves of garlic, minced

1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper

Process

Mix ingredients together in a bowl and place your protein into the mixture, and cover with lid or plastic wrap. Refrigerate for at least an hour and up to 24 hours. Steak is the only exception, and it should only marinate for 30 minutes. Grill at 425 degrees until cooked through.

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Summertime Marinades: Major Mojo

Chicken, grilling, Marinade, Mojo, Paleo, Salad, Shellfish

Today’s summertime marinade is a Cuban classic – Mojo. This mix of citrus, garlic and cilantro works works great on chicken, fish and shellfish, and it might just be the new recipe to spice up your menu. Serve anyway you want – with tortillas, on a salad, or be traditional and go with black beans and rice. IMG_2158

Major Mojo (best with chicken, seafood or shellfish)

Ingredients

6-8 cloves of garlic, chopped

1/2 cup white or yellow onion, chopped

1/2 cup orange juice

1/4 cup lime juice

1/4 cup fresh cilantro, chopped

1/2 teaspoon ground cumin

1 teaspoon oregano

1 teaspoon kosher or sea salt

1/2 teaspoon cayenne pepper

2/3 cup olive oil or coconut oil

Process

Mix all ingredients together in a bowl, place your protein into the mixture, and cover with lid or plastic wrap. Refrigerate for 30-60 minutes. Grill at 450 degrees until cooked through.

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Summertime Marinades: Dynamite Dijon

Chicken, Coconut Milk, Dijon, grilling, Herbs, Lamb, Marinade, meal plans, Paleo

Mustard-based marinades can be unexpected and very tasty. Even if you don’t gravitate toward mustard BBQ sauce, you should still give this recipe a shot. The coconut milk cuts the Dijon mustard nicely, and the fresh garlic and herbs give it an earthy taste. IMG_2754

This marinade almost seems luxurious because of its silky texture. Basting extra sauce over the meat while grilling creates a nice layer of flavor. This combination works particularly well with lamb, pork and chicken.

Ingredients

1/4 cup Dijon mustard

1/2 cup light coconut milk

4 garlic cloves, roughly chopped

2 tablespoons fresh rosemary, roughly chopped (or 1 tablespoon dried rosemary)

2 tablespoons fresh thyme (or 1 tablespoon dried thyme)

1 teaspoon ground pepper

1-2 pounds protein of your choice

Process

In a small bowl, mix the Dijon mustard and the coconut milk until fully combined. Then add the garlic, rosemary, thyme and pepper. Mix well.

Reserve 1/4 cup of marinade to use for basting. Mix the remaining marinade with your protein. For chicken and lamb, marinate for 30 minutes to 2 hours. For pork, marinate for 1 hour or up to 24 hours.

Grill protein at 425-450 degrees until the meat is cooked to your desired internal temperature. The heat level will help ensure that your meat doesn’t burn due to the thick marinade. Flip your meat once while grilling, baste with extra sauce, and flip and baste a second time before removing from the grill. Let the meat sit for five minutes before slicing or serving. Enjoy!

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Summertime Marinades: Snappy Lemon

Asian, grilling, Marinade, Paleo, Shellfish, tips

It’s summer, and it feels like it. That means my grill has been utilized nearly every night of the week. I just think food tastes better because of that open flame, and marinades can truly enhance an entire meal.

The real struggle comes when trying to find new marinades for your favorite grilled proteins. I honestly grill everything from steak to shrimp to vegetables. So I’ve developed a variety of easy homemade marinades that complement any meal.

Over the next few days, I’ll share four different recipes that can be used on practically anything. Experiment and try new proteins that you might not normally gravitate toward. You never know what new favorite you’ll whip up tonight. IMG_2695

The Snappy Lemon recipe below comes from my mom’s recipe book. It’s never failed me and offers a nice change to store-bought dressings used as a marinade. Try it tonight with grilled chicken or shellfish.

 

 

Snappy Lemon (best with chicken, skirt steak, seafood or shellfish)

Ingredients

1/4 cup reduced-sodium soy sauce (Coconut Aminos can be substituted)

2 tablespoons white wine

2 tablespoons lemon juice

1/2 teaspoon chili garlic sauce (you can find this in the Asian section at most grocery stores)

2 green onions, chopped

1 clove of garlic, finely chopped

Process

Mix all together in a bowl and place your protein into the mixture, and cover with lid or plastic wrap. Refrigerate 15-30 minutes (only 15 minutes for shellfish). Grill at 450 degrees until cooked through.

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